{"id":2845,"date":"2022-10-06T13:33:26","date_gmt":"2022-10-06T13:33:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.alchemyfor.life\/balancecoaching\/?p=2845"},"modified":"2022-10-06T13:33:29","modified_gmt":"2022-10-06T13:33:29","slug":"thoughts-vs-reality-not-what-you-think","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alchemyfor.life\/balancecoaching\/2022\/10\/06\/thoughts-vs-reality-not-what-you-think\/","title":{"rendered":"Thoughts vs. Reality &#8211; not what you think"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Here&#8217;s something you don&#8217;t hear &#8211; thoughts <em><strong>do not equal<\/strong><\/em> reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In an odd way this is a discussion (of the reverse kind) of mindfulness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fight of flight<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Our <strong>fight or flight mechanism<\/strong> was designed and evolved to deal with something happening right now.  It was designed to deal with <strong><em>reality<\/em><\/strong>.  If you&#8217;re having anxiety about the room filling up with water <strong><em>because it&#8217;s currently filling up with water<\/em><\/strong> and you need to escape then you&#8217;re not having anxiety\u2014you&#8217;re fighting or fleeing to escape the danger.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what about when you have the same feelings when you think about next Tuesday?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Listen in on what it means, what you can do about it.<\/p>\n<div itemscope itemtype=\"http:\/\/schema.org\/AudioObject\"><meta itemprop=\"name\" content=\"Thoughts vs. Reality &amp;#8211; not what you think\" \/><meta itemprop=\"uploadDate\" content=\"2022-10-06T13:33:26+00:00\" \/><meta itemprop=\"encodingFormat\" content=\"audio\/mpeg\" \/><meta itemprop=\"duration\" content=\"PT10M20S\" \/><meta itemprop=\"description\" content=\"\nHere&#039;s something you don&#039;t hear - thoughts do not equal reality.\n\n\n\nIn an odd way this is a discussion (of the reverse kind) of mindfulness.\n\n\n\nFight of flight\n\n\n\nOur fight or flight mechanism was designed and evolved to deal with something happenin...\" \/><meta itemprop=\"contentUrl\" content=\"https:\/\/alchemyfor.life\/podcasts\/thoughtsvsreality.mp3\" \/><meta itemprop=\"contentSize\" content=\"14.4\" \/><div class=\"powerpress_player\" id=\"powerpress_player_838\"><!--[if lt IE 9]><script>document.createElement('audio');<\/script><![endif]-->\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-2845-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/alchemyfor.life\/podcasts\/thoughtsvsreality.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/alchemyfor.life\/podcasts\/thoughtsvsreality.mp3\">https:\/\/alchemyfor.life\/podcasts\/thoughtsvsreality.mp3<\/a><\/audio><\/div><\/div><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_mp3\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"https:\/\/alchemyfor.life\/podcasts\/thoughtsvsreality.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_pinw\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Play in new window\" onclick=\"return powerpress_pinw('https:\/\/www.alchemyfor.life\/balancecoaching\/?powerpress_pinw=2845-podcast');\" rel=\"nofollow\">Play in new window<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/alchemyfor.life\/podcasts\/thoughtsvsreality.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow\" download=\"thoughtsvsreality.mp3\">Download<\/a><\/p><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_subscribe_links\">Subscribe: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alchemyfor.life\/balancecoaching\/feed\/podcast\/\" class=\"powerpress_link_subscribe powerpress_link_subscribe_rss\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Subscribe via RSS\" rel=\"nofollow\">RSS<\/a><\/p><!--powerpress_player-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s something you don&#8217;t hear &#8211; thoughts do not equal reality. 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