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No, I mean it. \u00a0You’re bored, that’s a good thing. \u00a0That’s a very key element in seeking balance.<\/p>\nNo, I mean it. \u00a0You’re bored, that’s a good thing. \u00a0That’s a very key element in seeking balance.<\/p>\n
Remember, as always, it’s about Time, Energy and Resources. \u00a0Tired of me saying that yet?<\/p>\n
Boredom has a stigma attached to it. \u00a0Because the world is so fast paced, because so many are concerned with getting ahead, making ends meet and contributing, if you say you’re bored it raises red flags with The Movers And Shakers. \u00a0Or, if you’re younger, with The Teacher And Parental Units. \u00a0So, you may be one of the people that quietly suffers, being bored and feeling guilty about it.<\/p>\n
Being bored does not mean you are intrinsically lazy – it does not mean you shrink from activities or work. \u00a0It does not mean that you choose the easy route because you’re too laid back. \u00a0It means you have a surplus of time, energy or resources.<\/p>\n
Boredom takes many forms and has a few causes. \u00a0The form your boredom takes and cause will tell you how to proceed next. \u00a0So, by reading this you have an advantage over your friends who are ‘just bored.’<\/p>\n
If you’re bored because you have extra time, it means you actually have the luxury of having your time flask filled enough to spill it into other activities. \u00a0Congratulations you have extra time<\/strong><\/em>, most people don’t. \u00a0Clients that come to me for balance are typically over booked and lacking any bonus time. \u00a0Once we work together we uncover ways to get more time. \u00a0Then that’s spilled into the stuff they want to do. \u00a0You’re already at<\/em> step two, so don’t beat yourself up.<\/p>\n Note I didn’t say “enough to keep you challenged” because you might react poorly to that and think it means you’re lazy; you’re not. \u00a0You can just hear a teacher saying that, can’t you?<\/p>\n Others will say you are. \u00a0I see phrases and little snippets of inspirational messages that say “If you’re bored you don’t have passion” because “I live life to the fullest” and blah blah blah. \u00a0Well, that’s not exactly true. \u00a0The people who have passions and are exploring them<\/em> had to adjust their outlook and interests at some point. \u00a0Very few of them figured it out early on, and almost none of them figured it out on their own. \u00a0Congratulations, you have extra energy<\/em><\/strong> to commit to something that will make you happy, fulfill and challenge you. \u00a0OK, I said “challenge,” but you were ready for it!<\/p>\n Your interests may cost resources – most do. \u00a0Even the least expensive hobbies can\u00a0start to cost noticeable amounts of hard earned cash, once you get into them and want to do them right. \u00a0Birdwatching? \u00a0Fancy binoculars, maybe with a built-in digital camera. \u00a0Dog walking? \u00a0Driving far to a nice dog park, dog harnesses, ‘working’ packs to train dogs, extra dog paraphernalia (he deserves it), etc. \u00a0Like gaming? \u00a0It’s just a game right, thirty bucks? \u00a0But there’s the console, or the new video card for the PC, and then the snazzy gaming headset to talk trash with, and then the new wireless controller, and the extra controller for your boyfriend. \u00a0I said boyfriend, because contrary to what many believe, nearly half of those who are gamers are women, according to the pew research center report<\/a>.<\/p>\n It is probably easy to suggest that you’re bored because you can’t afford a Formula One car, or the lunar lander for your potential Moon Rock Collection. \u00a0I’m not suggesting that. \u00a0I’m suggesting that resources can prevent you from exploring something in your life that would add fun and fulfillment. \u00a0And it’s not just about hobbies.<\/p>\n Are you bored? \u00a0If so, which one are you? \u00a0More than one?<\/p>\n Congratulations. \u00a0Stop feeling bad about it and see what you can do about it.<\/p>\n Next up:<\/strong> Now what? 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You’re bored because you don’t have the resources<\/h2>\n