{"id":913,"date":"2018-12-23T04:08:32","date_gmt":"2018-12-23T04:08:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.alchemyfor.life\/balancecoaching\/?p=913"},"modified":"2018-12-21T17:21:07","modified_gmt":"2018-12-21T17:21:07","slug":"charging-a-battery-filling-a-bucket-and-accomplishing-a-goal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alchemyfor.life\/balancecoaching\/2018\/12\/23\/charging-a-battery-filling-a-bucket-and-accomplishing-a-goal\/","title":{"rendered":"Charging a battery, filling a bucket and accomplishing a goal"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Charging a battery<\/h2>\n<p>We all own devices that run on batteries &#8211; iphones, androids, laptops, macbooks, ipads, apple watches, wireless headphones.\u00a0 Charging them sometimes becomes a sport in which we actually change our behaviour based on how much time we can get out of a certain item, right?\u00a0 Charge at night, or while you&#8217;re showering, etc.\u00a0 \u00a0Ever notice that everything with a battery charges a certain way?\u00a0 It may take three hours to charge something but the way it charges is not linear.<\/p>\n<h2>Filling a bucket<\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s easy to liken charging to filling up a bucket without spilling.\u00a0 Imagine that your battery is a bucket, and the charger&#8217;s job is to fill it to the very top without spilling any.\u00a0 Spilling some equals ruining the battery (or at least drastically reducing it&#8217;s capacity and effectiveness).\u00a0 \u00a0If you want to fill this bucket as fast as possible you just dump the water into it and try to stop at the very top.\u00a0 if you pour to much you screwed up the battery (and got the floor all wet).\u00a0 If you stop to soon you underfilled the bucket (and the battery only has 80% of the charge it is supposed to have(.\u00a0 So your charger does just what you&#8217;d eventually learn to do:<\/p>\n<p><strong>It charges very quickly in the beginning <\/strong>(it dumps the water)<strong> and then slows down near the end<\/strong>, and just gives it a trickle at the very very end.\u00a0 In fact some charges just sort of stop at 98% and then wait until it falls below 94%.<\/p>\n<h2>Accomplishments and goals<\/h2>\n<p>Accomplishments and goals are very similar to this battery and bucket.\u00a0 In fact, this charging method is a perfect metaphor for how goals are sometimes accomplished (and not).<\/p>\n<p>Remember the last thing you tried to accomplish?\u00a0 No, not doing the dishes &#8211; something larger like a project or even a major goal.\u00a0 You probably plunged into it full force, and got a great start.\u00a0 As the project progressed and you became aware of the many steps and milestones and sub tasks needed&#8230; you slowed down.\u00a0 Maybe it wasn&#8217;t voluntary &#8211; after all if you were working and depending on others you may have had to wait for them.*\u00a0 But indeed you slowed down.\u00a0 As you approached the finish line a few things may have happened:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The goal changed<\/strong> &#8211; once you were deep into the goal\/accomplishment you discovered\/realized a few things you were ignorant to before starting.\u00a0 So the goal line moved.\u00a0 The battery has more capacity than you thought or the bucket is deeper.\u00a0 <em><strong>So your trickle at the end is a trickle at the middle.<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<li><strong>You lost interest\/because daunted<\/strong> &#8211; This can happen when the menitua of the task eats you up.\u00a0 A death by 1,000 cuts is a very real pitfall of accomplishing a goal**\u00a0 You can also lose interest because, <em>hey, I didn&#8217;t know it would be like this<\/em> and <em>jeez, this is harder than I thought<\/em> and <em>maybe this isn&#8217;t for me.\u00a0 <strong>You don&#8217;t really want to charge this battery, maybe someone else should do it?<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<li><strong>You get paralysis by analysis<\/strong> &#8211; This is also why no one erects a statue to a committee.\u00a0 Though analysis is important if that&#8217;s all you&#8217;re doing you&#8217;re not moving forward.\u00a0<em><strong> So your charging is really looking at the battery, wondering about the best charger to use, or maybe considering filling the bucket with something other than water<\/strong><\/em>.<\/li>\n<li>You want to do it right &#8211; You look back at your progress and you really become one with the moment, being aware of the shift of time.\u00a0<em><strong> This battery is going to be charged perfectly to 100%, and that bucket is gonna get filled to the very top.<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<li>You start to savor the victory &#8211; A wonderful but dangerous thing to do, akin to counting those chickens before they are hatched.\u00a0 <em><strong>You may become so busy celebrating the 85% progress of te bucket fill and battery charge that it never goes higher.<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Be mindful<\/h2>\n<p>So, be mindful that the process of charging a battery, filling a bucket and accomplishing a major goal has a certain method for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>Check out my Balance Sheet as part of the Alchemy For Life system of accomplishing goals for a tangible was of reaching your goal.<\/p>\n<p>I want your battery to be charged to 100% and your bucket to be filled to the very top.\u00a0 Because there&#8217;s going to be another battery and another bucket soon, and they&#8217;ll be even larger.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #808080;\">* My experience with web development has taught me that the major delays and slowdowns of producing a newly developed site is mostly caused by waiting for the client to decide on an option, or deliver needed media.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #808080;\">** Writing a book is not just creating a manuscript &#8211; 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