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The Silence of Success
Social Media and You If you're on social media, whether it's the Boomers Gone Wild of Facebook, the Graphic (in many ways) Instagram, the Millennial-Controlled Tiktok or the 'business-oriented' Linkedin, you will see the kind of posts I'm about to talk about. Drawing...
Deferred Gratitude and Exotic Cars
Exotic Cars When people purchase exotic cars, they are sometimes hit with something called deferred maintenance. As with many car buyers, they see the value of purchasing a car used. The positive of that is that they get a car they want at a dramatically reduced...
Time and energy = space
A new formula Here's an interesting concept for you, just when you thought you understood that life is made of three things: Time, Energy and Resources. But after ll, this is alchemy. Time, Energy and Resources Alchemy for Life™ has always been about life being three...
Is Positivity just oblivious contentment?
What is Positivity? You may think that 'positivity' doesn't belong with such states of being as OCD, Anxiety, ADHD and the others featured in this 13-part series, but I think it does because it is markedly different than the average person. Positivity isn't just being...
Forced to be an Emergency Responder and Love Bombing
Forced Emergency Responders and "Love Bombing." Emergency Responders and the 2:00am call for a wooden spoon When we think of emergency responders, we think of paramedics and ambulances and firefighters and police. If you make widgets, no one is going to call you at...
What is OCD? Do I have OCD? The Reality of coping with OCD.
What is OCD? Do I have OCD? OCD stands for obsessive-compulsive disorder. It shares a symptom with ADHD in which you can be caught in a repetitive loop because of anxiety and stimulus. But it is different than ADHD. The reality of OCD The reality of OCD often...
Don’t speak that into existence!
Toddlers with chainsaws Are chainsaws bad? No. Should toddlers use them? No. We use chainsaws to perform a task, we don't give them to toddlers because it is dangerous to do so and the toddlers don't understand the balance of danger and functionality. Airbags,...
Psych Charm: ADHD
ADHD - Also known as Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. What is ADHD? Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. People with ADHD typically struggle with finding it difficult to focus. They are easily distracted in pursuit of stimulus. Sometimes the stimulus...
Psych Charm: Anxiety
Anxiety - The feeling of stress, the activation of a fight-or-flight mode. Anxiety for some can be a fairly dull but constant sensation of having to attend to a problem—a nagging feeling that you need to take care of something. This can be from the demands of your...
Gamification, Iconization and Tangibility.
Gamification, Iconization and Tangibility Those are some crazy words. They're fun and I like saying them. But what do they mean? My history I have always enjoyed looking at things as a system. It was only relatively recently that I realized that was what I was doing....
Creativity as a skill
Are you creative? No matter what your job, career or calling is, no matter what hobbies you have or do not, you have creativity. What if we treat it as a separate skill? What happens then? You'll be amazed. Join our free community at patreon to talk about...
If you don’t see the system…
"I see systems" This is something I have said for a very long time. Once I learned that this was one of my core directives it all made sense. But what does that mean, and how can that help you? Let's talk about the systems in your life. If you don't see the system you...
ADHD, Perception and Overwhelming Data – It’s Not Your Brain
😎 NOTE: The members of the AFL Patreon Community heard this episode last week. They get them a week early. You can too. Join it for free! What is ADHD actually? The term ADHD gets thrown around a lot. People use it for everything to describe an actual condition in...
It’s Time for Something Different
It's time. After all these episodes, books, coaching, and articles, it's time to approach this differently and give us a better way to connect with each other. We both deserve it.
Guaranteed Great Day if You do This…
I guarantee you will have a great day if you do this. And you might get a huge laugh out of it as well. Believe it or not this episode touches on and doubt, more experimental, psychology, and the holy Grail of positivity bias. All because your friend wants you to help...
Engagement Fiction for Your Type A Brain
A New Genre You are now part of the birth of a new genre—engagement fiction. I know it's new because I just made it up. If you're a type a personality*, then you probably enjoy your brain being fully engaged for your work. But when it comes time for play, you may not...
Selfishness demystified
You're probably selfish for a good reason. If not, your definition of selfishness is what's stopping you from taking care of yourself properly. This is not about self-care and self-love. It's about something entirely different.
Too much power to something via label
You might be giving too much power to something in your life, just because you gave it a LABEL. See labels for more on labels in: If you use them you’ll get smarter (or dumber)
How Much Real Estate do You Own…in the 4th Dimension?
How much real estate do you own? A fascinating way to look at one of The Big Three....
Three Phrases to Improve the Quality of Your Life
We all have phrases we can readily repeat. Some of us have important phrases that have made an impact on us.
Stood up – Switching Gears and the Element No One Talks About.
Have you ever been stood up? The origin of the term has many folksy definitions. I encourage you to look it up as many are sort of saucy, But we recognize this meaning someone did not show up as planned for a meeting, and usually includes them not reaching out or...
Meat Puppets handing you mailing list data
The right and the wrong way to approach a networking event Most of my episodes are about experimental psychology, how to deal with and manage time, energy and resources, or a unique concept I'd like you to consider. Sometimes the episode is a purely business-related...
If I were you…
Advice Who doesn't like giving advice? Who doesn't like receiving it? Wait, put your hands down, that was rhetorical. In all seriousness sometimes we need to ask for advice (we can't all be in a bubble) and we are lucky that someone values our wisdom enough to ask us...
Conf Calls, Promises and Who is Actually Talking
The olden days of voice only In the olden days when people wanted to collaborate they would jump on a conference call vs. jumping on a video call. It was extremely common to have a number of calls during any given week, and the larger the business the more conference...
The Challenge of Perspective
Sometimes you get the chance to see something from two perspectives.
Sometimes both perspectives come from the same person.
Sometimes that person is you.
Protecting Your Energy
If someone gives you a certain amount of time to do a thing, the first thing your brain does is assess the amount of energy it takes to do that. And that’s how you assess if you have been given enough time.
Feeling Safe & Relaxed – Parasympathetic Nervous System
Parasympathetic Nervous System The network of nerves that creates the system that's known for the 'rest and digest' feelings is the parasympathetic nervous system. This system is what aids in digestion, slows your heart rate and give you general feelings of well...
Too Many Words
Stroke support Group Recently, I sat in on a stroke support group. The group was for both the individuals who experienced strokes as well as their caretakers/family members. I had the blessing of the admin staff to do so. Was it uncomfortable? Yes did I feel out of...
A Strength Stretched too far Becomes a Weakness
Knowing your strengths Do you know your strengths some people do and some people don't. If you do know your strengths, there is something about them. You may not realize and that's the subject of this podcast. Stretching too far Sometimes when we approach a goal or a...
Live Your Life Iteratively
What is an iteration? An iteration is an updated version of something built upon its previous version. But, and iteration can also be another separate version. Examples of iterations When someone bakes a cake, they can create a cake that has chocolate filling, vanilla...
Type A Retirement – the frightening truth
Type A Personalities The phrase type a refers to a pattern of behavior and personality associated with high achievement, competitiveness, and impatience. Does this sound like you? Does this sound like most C-level employees? Does this sound like most entrepreneurs and...
Why white space is vital to communication
White Space The first known use of 'White Space' was back in 1946, and it means the area of a page without writing or pictures. It's the part between the words, the part that allows us to pause and consider. it allows us to compartmentalize one set of thoughts from...
Mentor, teacher, instructor… but is it ‘coach?’
Coach So what is a coach? And what is a life coach? “Life Coach” never really generated positive professional images in my mind, even though I’m considered to be one. It appeared out of nowhere and came with baggage. At least to me. But now it seems that everyone is a...
Taking responsibility for the good in your life.
Three words There are a number of words that can cause an emotional reaction. I won't use the word 'trigger' because that's overused. We're not going to go over all of those words, but we're going to do three of them: fault, responsibility, and ownership—and we're...
Find your core directives and something amazing happens
Passion Everyone talks about passion. For a long time, you were told to follow your passion. I talked about passion in Job, Career or Calling a few years ago. Obviously passions are good as they give us that energy we need, but there are a lot of things we are not...
Bias, internal, external & my eye-opening talk with Google Gemini
Google Gemini Gemini is Google's version of ChatGPT. It's a large language model (LLM) that thinks and responds naturally. You can have conversations, ask for advice, ask it to play a part, and even ask it to generate images. That's where my journey began. I asked it...