Alchemy For Life Podcast – Listen on itunes, Spotify

Podcasts are every Sunday and are either a 10 minute short article that can help you, or a 45 minute interview with someone who has done amazing things!  Find them on iTunes, Tunein, podchaser, podbean, last.fm, spotify and google musi

The Silence of Success

The Silence of Success

Social Media and You If you're on social media, whether it's the Boomers Gone Wild of Facebook, the Graphic (in many ways) Instagram, the Millennial-Controlled Tiktok or the 'business-oriented' Linkedin, you will see the kind of posts I'm about to talk about. Drawing...

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Deferred Gratitude and Exotic Cars

Deferred Gratitude and Exotic Cars

Exotic Cars When people purchase exotic cars, they are sometimes hit with something called deferred maintenance. As with many car buyers, they see the value of purchasing a car used. The positive of that is that they get a car they want at a dramatically reduced...

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Time and energy = space

Time and energy = space

A new formula Here's an interesting concept for you, just when you thought you understood that life is made of three things: Time, Energy and Resources. But after ll, this is alchemy. Time, Energy and Resources Alchemy for Life™ has always been about life being three...

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Is Positivity just oblivious contentment?

Is Positivity just oblivious contentment?

What is Positivity? You may think that 'positivity' doesn't belong with such states of being as OCD, Anxiety, ADHD and the others featured in this 13-part series, but I think it does because it is markedly different than the average person. Positivity isn't just being...

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Forced to be an Emergency Responder and Love Bombing

Forced to be an Emergency Responder and Love Bombing

Forced Emergency Responders and "Love Bombing." Emergency Responders and the 2:00am call for a wooden spoon When we think of emergency responders, we think of paramedics and ambulances and firefighters and police. If you make widgets, no one is going to call you at...

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What is OCD? Do I have OCD? The Reality of coping with OCD.

What is OCD? Do I have OCD? The Reality of coping with OCD.

What is OCD? Do I have OCD? OCD stands for obsessive-compulsive disorder. It shares a symptom with ADHD in which you can be caught in a repetitive loop because of anxiety and stimulus.  But it is different than ADHD. The reality of OCD  The reality of OCD often...

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Don’t speak that into existence!

Don’t speak that into existence!

Toddlers with chainsaws Are chainsaws bad? No. Should toddlers use them? No. We use chainsaws to perform a task, we don't give them to toddlers because it is dangerous to do so and the toddlers don't understand the balance of danger and functionality. Airbags,...

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Psych Charm: ADHD

Psych Charm: ADHD

ADHD - Also known as Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. What is ADHD? Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. People with ADHD typically struggle with finding it difficult to focus. They are easily distracted in pursuit of stimulus. Sometimes the stimulus...

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Psych Charm: Anxiety

Psych Charm: Anxiety

Anxiety - The feeling of stress, the activation of a fight-or-flight mode. Anxiety for some can be a fairly dull but constant sensation of having to attend to a problem—a nagging feeling that you need to take care of something. This can be from the demands of your...

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Gamification, Iconization and Tangibility.

Gamification, Iconization and Tangibility.

Gamification, Iconization and Tangibility Those are some crazy words. They're fun and I like saying them. But what do they mean? My history I have always enjoyed looking at things as a system. It was only relatively recently that I realized that was what I was doing....

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Creativity as a skill

Creativity as a skill

Are you creative? No matter what your job, career or calling is, no matter what hobbies you have or do not, you have creativity. What if we treat it as a separate skill? What happens then? You'll be amazed. Join our free community at patreon to talk about...

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If you don’t see the system…

If you don’t see the system…

"I see systems" This is something I have said for a very long time. Once I learned that this was one of my core directives it all made sense. But what does that mean, and how can that help you? Let's talk about the systems in your life. If you don't see the system you...

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It’s Time for Something Different

It’s Time for Something Different

It's time. After all these episodes, books, coaching, and articles, it's time to approach this differently and give us a better way to connect with each other. We both deserve it.

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Guaranteed Great Day if You do This…

Guaranteed Great Day if You do This…

I guarantee you will have a great day if you do this. And you might get a huge laugh out of it as well. Believe it or not this episode touches on and doubt, more experimental, psychology, and the holy Grail of positivity bias. All because your friend wants you to help...

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Engagement Fiction for Your Type A Brain

Engagement Fiction for Your Type A Brain

A New Genre You are now part of the birth of a new genre—engagement fiction. I know it's new because I just made it up. If you're a type a personality*, then you probably enjoy your brain being fully engaged for your work. But when it comes time for play, you may not...

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Selfishness demystified

Selfishness demystified

You're probably selfish for a good reason. If not, your definition of selfishness is what's stopping you from taking care of yourself properly. This is not about self-care and self-love. It's about something entirely different.

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Too much power to something via label

Too much power to something via label

You might be giving too much power to something in your life, just because you gave it a LABEL. See labels for more on labels in: If you use them you’ll get smarter (or dumber)

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Meat Puppets handing you mailing list data

Meat Puppets handing you mailing list data

The right and the wrong way to approach a networking event Most of my episodes are about experimental psychology, how to deal with and manage time, energy and resources, or a unique concept I'd like you to consider. Sometimes the episode is a purely business-related...

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If I were you…

If I were you…

Advice Who doesn't like giving advice? Who doesn't like receiving it? Wait, put your hands down, that was rhetorical. In all seriousness sometimes we need to ask for advice (we can't all be in a bubble) and we are lucky that someone values our wisdom enough to ask us...

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Conf Calls, Promises and Who is Actually Talking

Conf Calls, Promises and Who is Actually Talking

The olden days of voice only In the olden days when people wanted to collaborate they would jump on a conference call vs. jumping on a video call. It was extremely common to have a number of calls during any given week, and the larger the business the more conference...

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The Challenge of Perspective

The Challenge of Perspective

Sometimes you get the chance to see something from two perspectives.
Sometimes both perspectives come from the same person.
Sometimes that person is you.

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Protecting Your Energy

Protecting Your Energy

If someone gives you a certain amount of time to do a thing, the first thing your brain does is assess the amount of energy it takes to do that. And that’s how you assess if you have been given enough time.

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Feeling Safe & Relaxed – Parasympathetic Nervous System

Feeling Safe & Relaxed – Parasympathetic Nervous System

Parasympathetic Nervous System The network of nerves that creates the system that's known for the 'rest and digest' feelings is the parasympathetic nervous system. This system is what aids in digestion, slows your heart rate and give you general feelings of well...

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Too Many Words

Too Many Words

Stroke support Group Recently, I sat in on a stroke support group. The group was for both the individuals who experienced strokes as well as their caretakers/family members. I had the blessing of the admin staff to do so. Was it uncomfortable? Yes did I feel out of...

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A Strength Stretched too far Becomes a Weakness

A Strength Stretched too far Becomes a Weakness

Knowing your strengths Do you know your strengths some people do and some people don't. If you do know your strengths, there is something about them. You may not realize and that's the subject of this podcast. Stretching too far Sometimes when we approach a goal or a...

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Live Your Life Iteratively

Live Your Life Iteratively

What is an iteration? An iteration is an updated version of something built upon its previous version. But, and iteration can also be another separate version. Examples of iterations When someone bakes a cake, they can create a cake that has chocolate filling, vanilla...

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Type A Retirement – the frightening truth

Type A Retirement – the frightening truth

Type A Personalities The phrase type a refers to a pattern of behavior and personality associated with high achievement, competitiveness, and impatience. Does this sound like you? Does this sound like most C-level employees? Does this sound like most entrepreneurs and...

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Why white space is vital to communication

Why white space is vital to communication

White Space The first known use of 'White Space' was back in 1946, and it means the area of a page without writing or pictures. It's the part between the words, the part that allows us to pause and consider. it allows us to compartmentalize one set of thoughts from...

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Mentor, teacher, instructor… but is it ‘coach?’

Mentor, teacher, instructor… but is it ‘coach?’

Coach So what is a coach? And what is a life coach? “Life Coach” never really generated positive professional images in my mind, even though I’m considered to be one. It appeared out of nowhere and came with baggage. At least to me. But now it seems that everyone is a...

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Taking responsibility for the good in your life.

Taking responsibility for the good in your life.

Three words There are a number of words that can cause an emotional reaction. I won't use the word 'trigger' because that's overused. We're not going to go over all of those words, but we're going to do three of them: fault, responsibility, and ownership—and we're...

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Find your core directives and something amazing happens

Find your core directives and something amazing happens

Passion Everyone talks about passion. For a long time, you were told to follow your passion. I talked about passion in Job, Career or Calling a few years ago. Obviously passions are good as they give us that energy we need, but there are a lot of things we are not...

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